I think all of us have heard or used sarcasm. Myself, I have used it, as talking about a subject. But, most part, I try not use it against someone. Others (Attackers) use it, as, maybe giving themselves attention. Most of the time, people are being sarcastic toward someone, because, they really don't like that someone. Maybe the Attacker that is throwing the sarcasm, this someone is annoying to them too.
Sarcasm, I find is extremely rude. I remember a lady asked me a question. I don't remember the question. Someone else who was not a part of the conversation threw in some sarcasm on her question. I sort of looked at this person, turned and politely answered her question.
Most of the time, I see Sarcasm, being used, because they really don't care for the person, who is making a statement or asking a question. Sarcasm is used, because they really don't want to hear the conversation. Really don't want to talk right now, because it doesn't "MEAN A THING TO ME!" Also, the conversation is not about the Attacker.
Most don't see it as being rude. They see it as, "If you don't want a stupid answer, don't ask a stupid question." As if they the attacker is the only that is important. It is very rude, and embarrassing, which most of the time, the Attacker is after. Otherwise, being rude. I see it as being self centered.
People tend to ask, ere uh, stupid questions, maybe to start a conversation. If the Attacker can't see this, then they are the stupid ones. And once again, Rude. If the Attacker, don't want to be sociable, then, excuse yourself and walk away. Oh, I guess that would be good manners.
I have found myself asking a stupid question or making a comment just to start a conversation. I get a stupid sarcastic remark. So in turn, I say, "Excuse me for up setting you." "Excuse me, for bothering you" "Oh, I wasn't aware, you didn't want to talk to me". I haven't said, "Oh, I am sorry you're not friendly". I have heard some people, come right out and say "You're Rude!" Or walk away saying to someone else, "Talk about being rude".
Then you get some Attackers, that will make a remark, not realizing, the person is making an analogy, joking, etc. Duh, otherwise, wasn't intended to be serious. So, the Attacker, has made themselves look stupid, trying to draw attention on themselves with their sarcasm. Ha, good job Attacker.
Sarcasm, is very ill mannered. Guess its something, some people never learned. You know, No One, is perfect. Attackers seem to think they have the right to be critical and expect others to be perfect, for them. They really don't think out what they are attacking. It's almost like an excuse to take out their frustrations out on someone. Sort of, being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
There are attackers just like being mean. They think its funny to embarrass and degrade the person. And the person, feelings are hurt. The Attacker, really don't care. Once again, being self centered and not thinking of others they have thrown sarcasm on.
Well, maybe when it comes time for the attacker to be standing in front of the Pearly Gates. Ask the question, not knowing they died, "Is this heaven?"
They might get an answer, they don't want.
Well, I had my say.
Thank you
Pauline
The Lady in Black
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